Nappy Hair – The Other “N” Word?
Latest posts by Dianne Austin (see all)
- Video Sharing: HOW TO GET CURLY HAIR (TUTORIAL) - April 6, 2018
- Entrepreneur Tonya Cross Is Making Waves in the Natural Hair Space: NHCN Podcast #0026 - November 4, 2017
- Part 2: Alopecia, Hair Loss and More: A Candid Conversation About Our Hair with Dr. Shari Hicks Graham NHCN Podcast #0025 - September 27, 2017
There’s more than one derogatory N-word in the English language. While “nappy” may not be quite as inflammatory as the “other” N word, terms such as nappy, kinky and the negativity associated with the texture of our hair in general still conjures up pain for black people as many books on the history of black hair highlight.
The Good and the Bad
Consider yourself fortunate if you grew up with a loving adult telling you that your natural hair was beautiful, and that kinky hair was to be admired. Unfortunately, too many black girls and boys have grown up hearing the term “nappy” used in a different light, even within their own families. The word nappy has been used in a way that has often left our children feeling confused, degraded, or “less than”, whether intentionally or unintentionally. As a result, the word has become so repugnant that it’s practically considered a fighting word for many.
And when the word is used by those who aren’t black, the impact of the word feels even more hurtful and disrespectful. Don Imus called an entire women’s basketball team “nappy headed” and was swiftly fired from his radio show. An elementary school teacher read the book Nappy Hair to her class as a way to teach pride to her students of color. A controversy ensued and the teacher ended up having to transfer to another school due to the negative publicity.
Turning a Negative Into a Positive
The shift to natural hair has been a positive thing. Women are embracing their hair texture and recognizing that kinky, coily hair is in fact beautiful. With this shift towards acceptance of our hair, others are learning that afro textured hair is not a bad thing.
You can’t change the texture of your hair as it grows out of your scalp, and why should you want to? Why not focus on what you can change instead: your mindset?
The word nappy is only as negative as the connotations you ascribe to it. Instead of using the word nappy in a way that has negative connotations, why not apply more positive descriptors? After all, highly textured, kinky, curly, nappy hair is beautiful!
Practicing positive affirmations as it relates to the word nappy ingrains the positive attribute in your mind. If you’re serious about changing your mindset and embracing the word nappy try the following affirmations, (or make up your own).
Looking in the mirror and repeating:
“My nappy hair is beautiful and perfect.”
“Nappy hair is just as beautiful as straight hair.”
More things that we can do to end the negative cycle…
- Putting the slogan “Happy to be Nappy” on a T-shirt and wearing it with pride.
- Refusing to associate the terms “kinky hair” or “nappy hair” with bad hair.The next time someone uses the word nappy in a negative way, counter it with a discussion on how beautiful and versatile this texture really is.
Hair doesn’t define a person, but how you view natural hair and how you define it says a lot about you. The next time someone spits the word “nappy” at you in a negative way, just smile and say, “I‘m happy to be nappy“!
|“Changing attitudes about natural hair” is what we do at Natural Haircare News. Through informative articles, podcasts and videos, we go beyond just sharing the latest advice and tips on kinky, curly, wavy haircare – We shake things up and focus on the realities of wearing our hair natural. Not sure of which products are right for your hair type? Visit our solution oriented natural hair products store.|
You May Also Like:
- Why It’s Wrong to Call Your Hair Nappy
- The Brothas Speak Out On Natural Hair and Beauty
- A Lost Black Man: A Natural Hair Perspective
- Do You Find the Term “Nappy Hair” Offensive?
- Tales of a Hollywood Natural: NHCN News Podcast #0021
- Natural Hair News From Around the Web: 9 Things Some White People Don’t Understand About Natural Hair
- The Power Of The Puff… The Afro Puff That Is
- The Choice Is Yours
- Why Are Black Women So Emotionally Tied To Our Hair?
- Yes, I Stretch My Natural Hair – No Biggie…
- Everyone Ain’t Supposed To Be Natural
- Senegalese Women’s Group Called “N’happy Galsen Find The Beauty In Their Natural Hair
Explore Our Website!
Let’s Stay In Touch
What Others Are Saying
Natural Haircare Topics
- How Do You Know If You Have Scab Hair? Pictures
- 6 Tips for Controlling Frizz in Natural Hair
- The Finer Things In Life: Tips For Fine Hair Naturals!
- Combating Fairy Knots In Natural Hair, (Single Strand Knots)
- The LOC Method: 3 Steps For Happy, Moisture Rich, Natural Hair
- Mature Women and Natural Hair – A Photo Gallery
- Transitioners Start Here
- Natural Haircare Training and Certification Available at a North Carolina Community College
- The Benefits of Hair Steaming For Natural Hair
- To Trim Or Not To Trim – That Is The Question